
I’m a “blogger!” I’ve always wanted to say that. The blogs I write here are varied. I write about my own experiences, and I like to put it all out there. In other words, “I like to spill my tea!” Come back often to see what I’m spilling!
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Selling My Book
I did it! I mean I have never been a good salesperson. I have had to learn how to promote myself and my writing.

The Paths We Take
Life takes us all on a journey. So many choices, so many options, and so many possible paths. There have been plenty of times when it has been difficult to decide which path to take. Through prayer and dependence on God’s guidance, we have chosen; some good, some questionable, but always with hope.

“Momma’s Cherry Pie”
“She turned to the stove and picked up a fresh baked cherry pie, Izrael’s favorite”

My Experience: Part II
I finished a complete novel! Now what? As I finished editing and re-editing and multiple times editing, I began to wonder if I could publish my book. The answer was a clear, YES, I can, and I did.

My Experience: Part 1
I write long sentences. That was one of my biggest discoveries about my writing, since getting my first book published. I have started working on this since discovering my issue.


2023 Goals
This time of year brings up thoughts of what we want to do in the following year. Setting goals and a “New Year’s Resolution” have become a natural part of my life, and I really enjoy it.

Christmas, Family and a New Year
This time of year, I begin anticipating celebrating the birth of Christ, and spending quality time with family. It’s that time when we gather with those we love most and enjoy being together.


Lipstick and Depression
What do “Lipstick” and “Depression” have to do with each other?
I remember a time talking with someone close to me who was suffering with depression. I found myself offering ideas to help her feel better, to help her want to get out and enjoy even a few precious moments. At one point I suggested she put on some lipstick and go shopping.

Imposter Syndrome
The words “Imposter Syndrome” seem to be used a lot these days. I have seen it in various settings to include coaching dialogues, social media posts and even at my full-time job focused on employee performance.



What I’ve Learned from My Daughter
In celebration of my daughter’s birthday at the end of August, I am blogging (or bragging) about her this month.

How’s Your Mental Fitness?
Mental fitness is an important part of our overall wellness/fitness journeys. So many things can get in the way of mental fitness and staying mentally fit can be challenging with so many kinds of stressors moving in and out of our lives.
With all that life brings, how can we stay mentally fit? These are my opinions only, nothing official about them, but I will share what I do to maintain mental fitness.

She Sparkles
Dancing in a white dress, completely covered in sparkles, holding her shape perfectly. Her smile twinkles from the reflection of the sequins. Her eyes dance in rhythm with her hands and feet, in a Salsa-like pattern.
My hands immediately mimic hers and my feet dance like never before.

(Sometimes) “I Dance with Words”
As music starts, my hands, my feet …, they dance
My arms, my legs,
My hips, my head,
All of me moves

The First Coaching Session
I sat down in front of my computer several minutes early, determined not to be late for my first session of being coached as a writer. I wondered why I had agreed to do this.

A Writing Place
At that time there was only one place I felt inspired to write. It was in a place called Holman.

Coaching for Writers
As a writer myself, I know what works to get me in my own “writing mode” but I can admit that doesn’t always work.